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Saulyx
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 Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2006 5:35 pm Post subject: |
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| love is veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy coooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooollllllllllllllllllllllll |
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http://neerajsingh.bizhat
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| Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 1:10 am Post subject: Your obsession with oo yy and dd |
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Forum: Debate Forum
Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2006 11:05 pm
Subject: what is love#######@@@@@
| Saulyx wrote: | | love is veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy coooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooollllllllllllllllllllllll |
Forum: Free Web Hosting
Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2006 11:08 pm
Subject: Funny Pictures
| Saulyx wrote: |
coooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool nice picture
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Forum: E - Friends
Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2006 10:58 pm
Subject: PHP
| Saulyx wrote: | | use a google.com it is wery gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooddddddddddddddddddddd sorry :wink ... |
Forum: E - Friends
Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2006 10:57 pm
Subject: can you help me ?
| Saulyx wrote: | | i do not andestendddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd |
Above are few instances from the various posts posted by you in this forum. By seeing your obsession with "o, y and d" I am sure that you are deeply in love or planning to fall in love in near future.
We would be more than happy to know your views over it. BUT for God sake do not post irresponsible and meaningless lines. Better, put your experiences with love and what you think in more detail. It'd help others.
Sorry, if I appear to be a bit harsh. |
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http://neerajsingh.bizhat
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| Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 5:09 am Post subject: If you can't convince them, confuse them. |
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| Kakashi wrote: | I watched your argument Neeraj/Ebisu-san and indianbaba and if you allow me, I would like to ask a few questions myself on the matter.
Neeraj says that if you are in love with someone but can't marry him for some reasons, you should be happy. I would like to know what kind of reasons could there be. Your mate being already married? Your parents not wanting your mate/ vice versa? Social factors? Age factors? Wealth factors? Someone blackmailing you?
Each case is different. If your mate is already married, then the relationship is wrong - and should not have started. If it's a parent thing, you shouldn't bother listening to them. You're their child, if they can't accept your decisions, let them not. But don't be bothered. If it's a factor thing, you can always overcome it. Blackmail? Well, that's kind of complicated. But if you really want to be with someone and get married, you can find a way.
Let's say that when you love someone really much, you want to spend the rest of your days with them, and thus get married with them. It is only natural. It is not about insecurance, it is about deep connection and bonding. I am not saying that if you are not married with your mate you are not bonded, it is just that marriage brings you even closer.
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Thanks for your comments and taking interest in the on going discussion over Love. I am totally flat after looking at your response Kakashi-san. Frankly speaking after reading it completely, I myself have started to look at it from different perspective. I am a bit late in my response. Anyway, here is my response to make it more interesting.
You have given many reasons when a love can't be converted into marriage. I agree with you that we should strive hard to face any of the challenges and try to remove obstacles from our way so that we may get our love as our wife or husband. It's an unparallel feeling indeed. They say Love is God and I feel it is !
My thoughts don't clash with above logic. What I mean to say that there is always a scope that things didn't turn your way. Let us take an example in Indian scenario where family bonds are too strong and a marriage decision takes into consideration multi-directional aspects. Love doesn't see the social status, economical status, religion, color or caste. But as a social animal, our society do. India is a typical example where you can find every permutation and combination of love.
At some point of time, we have to take a decision that we should get married with each other. Then following things may happen.
There is no complexity in getting married with your love - Go ahead. All the best.
Lovers are ready but there are some sort disagreement among any of the stakeholders due to any of the reasons say ---
In this case, you need to take a decision as to which path you are going to choose. Just take the tough decision and go and get married with your love. Just check that you only get selfish to a certain extent and you never feel guilty of your choice at some juncture of your life in future. Also you are strong enough to face the challenges posed by the always complaining society where you live. In the end the most important thing that your main aim of life is not going to get affected by your decisions. The transition from love to marriage should be so smooth that it should not lag you behind in acheiving your goals in life. Love is one of the most important thing in life BUT it's NOT THE EVERYTHING in your life.
You have to decide to part way due to some unfavorable circumstances. -- There are different ways to achieve the same thing and many a time we take so long time to reach at the destination that the final target itself is not meaningful by the time we reach there. Please do not spoil your whole life because you can't call your lover as your husband / wife. You have tried your best but couldn't help it so don't think like a loser. God might have kept something better for you and it's upto us to open our doors to welcome and receive it. Let the fresh air come in. You are not failing in love, it's just the unconventional end that you are giving to your love. So, that's why I suggested in my previous post that we can create a win-win situation if we give our previous lover a status of a very - very close friend who will always be there as a friend who understand you the most and get married with someone and love your partner so passionately that he/she forget his past (if he or she had any).
PS:If you can't convince them, confuse them. Ø Life is unsure; always eat your dessert first. |
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Kakashi
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| Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 9:04 am Post subject: |
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I appreciate the time and effort for your reply, Neeraj/ Ebisu-san.
And I am reluctantly confessing that I have absolutely no idea about the social structure of India and it's ethics, therefore I am not the appropriate person to agree or disagree with your suggestions.
Being raised in Greece has it's advantages - and disadvantages as well. We have what people call "Mediaterranean taperament" meaning that we are very passionate in all aspects of our lives. We usually defy social taboos and claim our heart's desire at every cost.
Like I said, I don't know anything about India's moral code, so I cannot agree/ disagree with your opinions, but I can definitely say that you should really give it a try before giving up. And a hard try as well.
Albeit I can't debate with your ideas anymore due to my ignorance - and I apologize deeply - , I am at least a bit happy for making you look at the matter from a different prospective.
I hope I have helped in any way.
Just my thoughts. |
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http://neerajsingh.bizhat
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| Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 9:31 am Post subject: Your views have helped the cause. |
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Dear Kakashi-san.
Thanks for your suggestions.
Just on a personal note, I'd like to share with you that I do encourage people who are in love to go ahead with their decisions and live a happy life after getting married. I have this thought at some corner in my heart that irrespective of the obstacles, we should strive for achieving our dreams. Your views have helped the cause. |
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Kakashi
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| Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2006 9:43 am Post subject: |
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Dear Neeraj/ Ebisu-san,
I would like to thank you for agreeing with my opinions and supporting them.
Moreover, I am satisfied with myself to know that I have helped even in the slightest way.
Eventually, it's up to us to decide what we shall do or not.
My humble greetings. |
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http://neerajsingh.bizhat
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| Posted: Fri Jan 20, 2006 7:12 am Post subject: Love Secret |
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Love Secret
by: Anthony de Mello, SJ, One Minute Wisdom
A newly married couple said, "What shall we do to make our love endure?"
Said the Master, "Love other things together." |
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http://neerajsingh.bizhat
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| Posted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 8:01 am Post subject: A poem on Love. |
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Love
by Allison Jane
Love is your friend,
Love is your foe,
It can bring you happiness
It can bring you woe.
It can cause you joy
As it causes you sadness.
So how may I ask
Can people put up with this madness?
Is it the tears of happiness
Or the tears of sorrow,
That make people sick
If they don't see them tomorrow?
Love is a gentle
Yet harsh kind of feeling,
It will hurt you badly
While it works its healing.
Love is not a Guy
Or Girl kind of thing,
It can take things away
With the good things it may bring.
Love can take forever
As it happens so quick,
And it makes you so happy
It'll make you sick.
You can talk forever
And still not know what to say.
It can change from sweet to sour
In the length of a day.
But this to you,
I must confess,
Why can't I be
Involved in this mess? |
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asli
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| Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 11:54 am Post subject: |
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| love is the way which mixed by our owns....... |
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pH
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| Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 12:31 pm Post subject: |
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Wah now only i sceen a very good discussion is going on her.
let me say my comment
 LOVE IS A STATE OF MIND! FEEL IT AND ENJOY
 I AM IN LOVE and I WILL MARRY THAT GIRL |
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http://neerajsingh.bizhat
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| Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 8:42 am Post subject: I hope love is not that cryptic |
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| asli wrote: | | love is the way which mixed by our owns....... |
Hey.. what does that mean dear.. I hope love is not that cryptic |
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ftvfatboy
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| Posted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 5:31 pm Post subject: |
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well this is going very well.
neeraj keep up ur work.
thanks buddies |
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http://neerajsingh.bizhat
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| Posted: Mon Jan 30, 2006 8:26 am Post subject: Beauty and Love |
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Thanks ftvfatboy for your words of appreciation..
Beauty and Love
by: Author Unknown, Source Unknown
Whenever Beauty looks,
Love is also there;
Whenever beauty shows a rosy cheek
Love lights Her fire from that flame.
When beauty dwells in the dark folds of night
Love comes and finds a heart entangled in tresses.
Beauty and Love are as body and soul.
Beauty is the mine, Love is the diamond.
They have together
since the beginning of time-
Side by side, step by step. |
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| Quote: | | Love & Marriage - Really a Good One. |
wow thats the most touching thing ive seen in a while  its really awesome
thnx ftvfatboy |
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http://neerajsingh.bizhat
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| Posted: Wed Feb 01, 2006 11:53 am Post subject: Some Random THoughts over - What is Love |
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Here are few of the random thoughts over the topic "What is Love". This I have collected from different section of our forum. Hope it would make more sense to get everything at one place.
According to sapphire.bizhat.com Love is :
Love is Mom's kiss and Dad's pat.
Love is sweet roses to a lover and tender caresses to a child.
Love is the tree of friendship.
Love is mutual understanding and support.
Love is forgiveness and sacrifice.
Love is the never-setting sun in the sky.
Love is the spring of the inspiration.
Love is a panacea that cures spiritual wounds.
Love is the candle in the dark and the fireplace against the cold.
Love is a key to open the door of a closed heart.
Love is an oasis on a boundless desert which gives a tired walker strength and hope.
Love is a harbor in a turbulent sea which makes a weary seaman safe and sound.
Love is balmy wind that soothes pain and anxiety from the tempests of the life.
Love is the teacher's persistence in giving lectures when he is ill.
Love is passing a cup of tea to teachers during the break.
Love is sending postcards to parents on their birthdays.
Love is a kind of subtle and precious sensation among human beings.
Love is all!
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According to swati Love is ...
Life, Silence, Thinking, Expression, Hunger, Thirst, Tastless, Surprise, Sence, Faith, Colourless, No Flavour, Objectless, Ominipresent, Feelings, Deep Sleep.
Above all it is GOD.
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And pramk77 feels that
LOVE IS NOTHING BUT THE AFFECTION AND LIFE
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