boyfriend/girlfriend issues

aramannie · Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2006 7:50 pm Post subject: boyfriend/girlfriend issues

i suppose that BF/GF issues will be interesting to everyone, even when you dont have one now.

Kakashi · Posted: Thu Feb 23, 2006 8:40 pm Post subject:

No, not really. When I broke up with my ex ( that was, uh, three years ago? ) I was somehow resentful and disappointed, but then I was just indifferent. It's no use holding on to the past.
You should just let go and look ahead. Being friends with my ex... I would consider it. It would certainly be an.. interesting experience. But it would be awkward as well.

aramannie · Posted: Sun Feb 26, 2006 9:59 pm Post subject:

aramannie · Posted: Sun Feb 26, 2006 10:08 pm Post subject:

i was wondering:... what is the worst thing that a boyfriend/girlfriend has done to u but u remained with him/her???

Kakashi · Posted: Mon Feb 27, 2006 12:24 am Post subject:

The worst thing... That would be cheating. Maybe I'm too nice with people. But I still believe that remaining friends with someone who was your mate/lover is awkward after the breaking up.

alyceclover · BizHat Newbie Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 14 Location: USA

It always amazes me that people are able to stay friends with their ex's. This sometimes causes new bf/gf troubles. (you'll go back to them, you still love them). My ex husband abused me verbally and sometimes physically. I stayed because my children were too young and had no way to support them and myself. The only thing I don't regret is our children. When he was seeing two women, I thought it was a good thing to become friends. He mistook this as interest and so...

I now have a couple of men friends that I'd dated but didn't consider them to by boyfriends tho' both kept swearing they loved me. (ho ho)

I didn't hate the time I spent with my ex boyfriend. Would not have stayed with him so long if there hadn't been good times. But I regret that I got involved with the lying, two-timing cheat. It's no fun being used by a man. We were friends once, so tried to part friends with him. He's done some things since, that make that impossible.

Guttu · Posted: Mon Feb 27, 2006 4:27 pm Post subject:

@alyce

Sorry to know about ur breakup
Its the forwardness in many countries which brings such troubles
In our country wife wil ever allow her husband to b friend wid other woman, Even talk wid her

Though this is awkward but manytimes it prevents family troubles

And IMO u cannot b friend wid some1 who hurt u so much
After giving the most valuable thing you hav
Not sexual pleasure, but the time u spent wid him\her

dilatedjunkie · BizHat Newbie Joined: 27 Feb 2006 Posts: 5

depending on who it is and how we broke up

alyceclover · BizHat Newbie Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 14 Location: USA

aramannie · Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 5:34 pm Post subject:

aramannie · Posted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 5:43 pm Post subject:

Guttu · Posted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 4:56 am Post subject:

@aramannie

aramannie · Posted: Sat Mar 04, 2006 7:53 pm Post subject:

emmmmmmmmm that was me:-s
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well.. i'm a female, and no, i don't consider all men mad & bad. in fact i have my man who loves me and treats me gr8. in fact, i didn't generalize that men are bad.... u can see that i used the word "SOME" ... not all... and, i would like to point out that i was talking abt ppl who are mistreated by their husbands. some women can't actually let go of their husbands bcz they don't have a family of their own & they can't live otherwise bcz only their men aresupporting them as much as mistreating them. i know such ppl. also, in some cultures, a woman doesn't have enough support to escape such bad situations. some women were found beaten to bruises & broken bones & they could do nothg but to pretend that they fell down the stairs... it's in fact hurting to see that ur neighbor's crying or so on... & some countries don't support the woman as they should.. that was what i was talking abt.

Guttu · Posted: Sun Mar 05, 2006 3:59 am Post subject:

ok i understood
soory for misunderstanding you
I hope u get a gud life wid other man u love

aramannie · Posted: Sun Mar 05, 2006 7:22 pm Post subject: