Online Dating Tips

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Online dating offers wonderful opportunities to meet and fall in love however, it's important to keep a few things in mind:

1. Watch out for someone who seems too good to be true and be on the look out for inconsistencies.

2. Guard your anonymity. Don't rush into giving your personal information right away.

3. Any suitor must earn your trust gradually. Take all the time you need to become comfortable with someone before revealing any personal contact information.

4. Ask for more than one photo, preferably in a variety of settings - casual, formal, indoor and outdoor.

5. If you're not given a solid contact number, if you have to page a person to call you back or if you can only call during certain hours, this is not a good sign.

6. Consider it suspicious if someone you barely know asks you for financial assistance. Avoid getting into financial trouble by following a simple rule: don't lend or borrow money.

7. Always trust your instincts and exercise caution and common sense.

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Modern Dating: A "New-Fangled" Idea

Since the beginning of the 20th century, the purpose of romantic relationships and marriage has become that of providing satisfaction and fulfillment for the individual. Before that, marriage and relationships were looked at as something that could bring about privileges and advantages for your “tribe”, whether your tribe was your family, your social or religious community, or your country. Under that world view, the needs and desires of the individual were not considered to be as important as benefits like allying yourself with a wealthy family, gaining an important political advantage, or ensuring the passing down and survival of important cultural and religious traditions.

In order to take into account all of the various factors that would be involved in some kind of an arranged relationship, the parties involved would need to take advantage of the skills of some type of matchmaker. Whether it was a political advisor, who could suggest favorable matches for an eligible son or daughter based on the political trends taking place in the country at that time, or the local wise woman charged with the health and well-being of her community, a matchmaker was charged with evaluating the strengths and weaknesses of each potential partner, in an effort to find the best match for everyone involved.

Interestingly enough, the concept of an outside person or force working as a matchmaker seems to be coming back into play in our culture, but with a modern twist. Although mean and women today still want the freedom to choose their romantic partners for themselves, many are turning to online or in-person dating services, the modern day matchmakers, for help in meeting potential partners to choose from. So the modern day dating experience has now become a blend of the best of the old traditions with the individual’s new freedom to choose.

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Bachelors are not favourites of those who exploit marriage business. Dree makers donot like bachelors because they never

buy dresses except in self defence. Jewellers donot like bachelors because they always try to sell them jewels. Hire car firms

donot like bachelors because they always take taxis. Florists donot like bachelors because they do not like anyody.

Has bachelor has no friends ?. Only one, mother.
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Love is not the basis for marriage; marriage is the basis for love.

Being loved is the second best thing in the world; loving someone is the best.

Treat your partner with respect and deal with honesty.

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After marriage, she will live like an actress living in night club. The bill will be as steep. There is nobody she doesn't know and nowhere ahe doesn't go. Regarding cooking, she asks ' do you take the shell off before you fry an egg ?'.

Is incapable of striking a match without setting the house on fire. In marriage the promise from the girl's side is too vague to be actionable.

Marriage consists of a master, mistress and two slaves, making two in all.

When you are going to marry ?
When pigs have wings!.

A supreme misfortune, a human octopus - Think carefully before you venture.

Woman like valuable possessions (Gold, diamonds, posh car etc), a desireable item is man. More than 50 % of the British woman millionares are divorced ( Divorce has made a right way to earn easy money within no time).

--- Quoted from 'How to avoid matrimony', the best seller of the 1970s.

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Man and woman are of different sex, so their character, behaviour and thinking are different.

Those who truly love will not expect love in return.

Woman will use words that she doesn't really mean, so he shouldn't take them literally or define them.

Men feel emotions as strongly as women, but avoid showing it.

While talking to a woman just sit expression less and don't interrupt the conversation with solutions.

He may have been a perfect man all day but she refuses sex because she is still unhappy that he insulted her mother two weeks ago!.

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the above is right belive him he knows

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All about love, marriage & sex

Make your husband feel great : Tips for a happy married life.

The only time a woman really succeeds in changing a man is when he is a baby. Therefore never try to change your husband !.

To be happy, keep your husband happy.

Only you can make yourself happiest.

The more time you are together, the more likely you are to get on each other's nerves.

Want to be a good wife ?. Have confidence in your husband.

Be a good wife by encouraging him to work harder in his younger years. Encourage. Don't nag.

Be his partner in his dreams.

Simple truth about marriage : If you want to make your husband happier, make yourself happy first.

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Happiness

If you want happiness for an hour....take a nap
If you want happiness for a day....go on a picnic
If you want happiness for a month....get married
If you want happiness for a year....inherit wealth
If you want happiness for a lifetime....learn to love what you do for your living !.

Be happy with yourself, your husband will be happier with his work, and happier with you.

Happiness is never perfect unless it is shared.

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Only for the married

You will decide what husband you want. Do you want to be a taller wife with a shorty husband or a shorty wife with a taller husband or equal - that you decide, and think about your reactions every action of his.

When your husband comes home from the office, for the sake of your own happiness don't throw tantrums.

Grow up to be a big girl, learn to solve your own problems instead of telling him silly silly problems. Be a good wife.

Wives, stay away from temptations. Lord Ram spoiled his life when he try to chase the lovely deer for Sita after hearing her words. When the greed starts in our lives, even Lakshmana rekhas won't work.

Help your husband to relax. You have to teach him to slow down, how to enjoy what you already have.

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Be a good wife - tips

Both you have a common goal - to be happy in life together.

Don't shout at your husband. He wants peace of mind when he comes home and, therefore, he tries very hard not to retaliate, and to accepts the insults and humiliations.

Learn to enjoy simple pleasures of life.

Don't compare your husband with other husbands.

Have a problematic husband - It is you and him - both have created a problem and only both of you can solve it.

The mightiest tree falls with a humble axe on the hundredth stroke. It does not mean the earlier ninety nine strokes did not contribute to the success.