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http://neerajsingh.bizhat · Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 8:35 pm Post subject:

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http://neerajsingh.bizhat · Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 8:44 pm Post subject:

True love isn’t about passion or lust or attraction or common interests and personalities. It’s something altogether different. It’s about learning to complement each other, learning to grow with each other. It’s about doing love-things, even when you don’t feel like it, even when life drives you to insanity, even if you think you’ve lost love. It’s about commitment and perseverance and thinking and feeling and happiness.

--TimKing (from "Love Through the Eyes of an Idiot")

http://neerajsingh.bizhat · Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 9:00 pm Post subject:

love is the tendency not to betray, without necessarily having any particular reason to do this. This, of course, has an upside and a downside - it leaves one open to betrayal, but it tends towards a forgive-and-forget strategy which ensures that one can escape the continuous loop of betrayals that a TitForTat strategy might bring.

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http://neerajsingh.bizhat · Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 9:19 pm Post subject:

There is no such thing as love.

When two people are truly in love…its not a question of what anyone else thinks. It is how they complete the other. How they fill all voids in the other’s life. It is not about material goods or how compatible you are with someone.

Being in love with someone is being happy going to bed with the other. The love's object is the last thought on your mind and the first thought when you wake up.

Love does exist.

When you find it, you know. You wonder how you ever did without it. It is finding that person that embodies all the things that you could ever want in a person. It is finding the exact match to the infinite number of personalities that are possible. It is finding that person that was molded for you. It is the person that has all of these different things in one entity. A Rainbow

… TMR

Love has much to do with hope and being willing to forsake some of yourself to be their sole partner. TMR correctly envisions our ideal person. We may look for someone who is a perfect match but one hopes to remember that we should seek for and BE some such perfect puzzle piece yet stay pliabe enough to be selfless in our actions. Love is a form of worship is it not?

TMR, the way you make it sound there should be only one perfect match (as a matter of fact the word perfect would imply this) for every person.

Then how would you explain that people can fall in love many times. I think the core of a relationship is memory.

I believe memory is in essence what makes us differ from other animals, and memory it is that makes love possible. It is things you share, things that nobody else knows about you, things that make you and the person different from everybody else.

It is hard going out with a couple, because always they will have things that only they understand, and you feel like you're just not part of that conversation. And you're not..

I think it is feeling, there's really not much more to it, people try to make such a big deal out of it, but really...it is just a feeling.
- [frakd]

http://neerajsingh.bizhat · Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 6:37 pm Post subject:

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN '"SOMEONE U LOVE'" AND '"SOMEONE U LIKE'"

In front of the person u love,ur heart beats faster.
But in front of the person u like,u get happy.

In front of a person u love,winter seems like a spring.
But in front of a person u like,winter is just a beautiful winter.

If u look into the eyes of the one u love,u blush.
But if u look into the eyes of the one u like,u smile.

In front of a person u love,u can't say anything on ur mind.
But in front of a person u like,u can.

In front of the one u love,u tend to get shy.
But in front of the one u like,u can show ur own self.

U can't look straight into the eyes of the one u love.
But u can always smile into the eyes of the one u like.

When the one u love is crying,u cry with him.
But when the one u like is crying,u end up comforting him.

The feeling of love starts from the eye.
But the feeling of liking starts from the ear.

So if u stop liking a person u used to like,all u
need to do is close ur ears.

But if u try to close ur eyes,love turns into a drop
of tear & remains in ur heart forever.......

ftvfatboy · Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 7:45 am Post subject:

NEERAJ HAVE CHANGED THE THREAD TO LOVE FORUM IT SEEMS!!

Madhouse · BizHat Newbie Joined: 30 Apr 2006 Posts: 19

Love is a burning thing
and it makes a firery ring
bound by wild desire
I fell in to a ring of fire...

Thats how i feel about my love : ))

http://neerajsingh.bizhat · Posted: Tue May 02, 2006 6:03 pm Post subject:

We appreciate your feelings dear Madhouse.

May you always be happy with your love.

Keep visiting this thread Very Happy

And thanks ftvfatboy for your comments...

rimcs · Posted: Wed May 03, 2006 5:19 pm Post subject: Migh thought

Dear Frinds, for me love is (L) list (O) of (V) vital(E)essential. It's not only for your Friend, wife but more than that.
Amitabh

http://neerajsingh.bizhat · Posted: Thu May 04, 2006 5:03 am Post subject:

That's quite true rimcs. When we mention love, it is for everyone. Towards our elder, for our family members, and also for our country and for almost anything we may mention here.

http://neerajsingh.bizhat · Posted: Fri May 05, 2006 4:06 am Post subject:

I'm sure we can all learn something from this Chinese story.

A long time ago in China, a girl named Li-Li got married & went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all.

Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother-in-law's habits. In addition, she criticized Li-Li constantly. Days passed and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never topped arguing and fighting. But what made the situation even worse was that, according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li's poor husband great distress.

Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law's bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it. Li-Li went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs. She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all.

Mr. Huang thought for a while,and finally said, "Li-Li, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you."

Li-Li said, "Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to do."

Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package of herbs. He told Li-Li, "You can't use a quick-acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious. Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving. Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspect you when she dies.You must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. Don't argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen."

Li-Li was so happy. She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law. Weeks went by and months went by, and every other day, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother.

After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost never got mad or upset. She hadn't had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with. The mother-in-law's attitude toward Li-Li changed, and she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in-law one could ever find. Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter. Li-Li's husband was very happy to see what was happening.

One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again. She said, "Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison from killing my mother-in-law! She's changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her."

Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. "Li-Li, there's nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her."

HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you?

There is a wise Chinese saying: