Open your eyes and see things as they truly are

[jada2002]

Hi everyone,

Men and women who are being abused by
their mate find themself torn between wanting
the abuser punished and giving them another
chance. Their emotions plays tricks with them
and they follow their heart instead of their brain.

They know that the right answer is to leave the
relationship but they don't leave.They feel they
are loved, and they don't know any better because
they don't know what real love is. Loneliness is
a reason for women and men to subject themself to
this kind of love. Having someone on their arm for
show when they go out helps cover up the loneliness.
Instead what they should do is kick the abuser to the
curb.

Someone does not have to hit you to be an abuser,
there's yelling,putting you down, embarssing you
both mental and emotionally. If you are ever afraid
even for a second,thats a sign for you to worry. Most
of the time a person that allows another person to
abuse them has low esteem of themself,and you
don't love yourself either.

If they don't love themself then they cannot give love.
Learn to respect your body and love yourself, then you
will realize how wonderful and beautiful you truly are
and you deserve the best.

Open your eyes and see things as they truly are