5 Signs of a Jealous Friend
Here are some signs of a jealous friend which will be helpful in identifying whether your friend is jealous or a true friend.
1. No sign of happiness
When there is some good news in your life and you tell it to your friend, he/she reacts very casually and makes it a very hush-hush affair. He/she will react as if nothing has happened and will not show any sign of happiness or joy. This is a sign which you must be aware of as it is an indication that your friend is jealous of you. Your friend might even go the extent of counteracting your positive news with a negative, and will look at every opportunity to make you lose hope.
In some instances when you are doing well, your friend avoids you and always looks for a chance to spend lesser time with you as it reminds him/her that he/she is unhappy and hence prefers staying away from you. He/she avoids eye contact and instead of being happy for your success, avoids you, making excuses that he/she is busy with some work. He/she thinks that being with you makes him/her feel less powerful and your success overshadows his/her accomplishments.
Your friend tells how and why you can’t do a thing, and always points out your flaws discouraging you from every venture. This is another sign that your friend is jealous of your accomplishments. Such behavior is harmful for you as you lose out on many opportunities and end up on the losing side even when you have the capability to win.
4. No support
This is shown when you depend on your friend to do something for you and he/she falls short of the required criteria. He/she falls short of what is he/she is supposed to do and you suffer the consequences of his/her negligence. There are also cases in which your friend comes up with every excuse he/she can as to why he/she can’t help you and sometimes doesn’t help you even if he/she has promised to help.
This is a sign of your friend being clearly jealous of you as he/she will try to upstage you in every stage of life, be it education, public life or anything else. He/she will compete with you in every stage of life and always try to be one step ahead of you. He/she might develop jealous and competitive behavior which is not only being competitive but also trying to show the other person down. He/she is not only interested in winning against you but also will not derive happiness if you are part of a success. Such a friend is not a true friend and you should be aware of such people.
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