How should we motivate ourselves in negative circumstances?

Thanks everybody for sharing all the great thoughts, this
kind of post may be of no importance to some but to those
who looks to move ahead in life this kind of thoughts are
real booster to your motivation.

Here is something which I would like to share with all of you
Never be depressed because you are not successful today,
cheerup for this is the door to success you have been for.

If you don't know from the mistakes you did today, how can
you know what is correct. Every mistake you do teaches you
something new... it open's your thought, it makes you more
determined,it shows you the exact path you should use to be
successfull.
Amitabh

Thank you very much dear Amitabh for sharing such a good thought with all of us. Keep adding more. We all will in turn get benefitted with it.

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When you feel you are alone in a crowd. When you feel no one can understand you. When your love is rejected by others & when you hate your life. Just close your eyes & see her face who loves you more than anyone else, who cares for you in loneliness & dies for you when you cry. She is no one but your sweet loving MOM. Love her more than anyone else in this world because only she was, is and will be there for you all the time.

There once was a cancer patient who woke up one morning, looked in the mirror, and noticed she had only three hairs on her head.

"Well," she said, "I think I'll braid my hair today." So she did and she had a wonderful day.

The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and saw that she had only two hairs on her head.

"Hmmm," she said, "I think I'll part my hair down the middle today." So she did and she had a grand day.

The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and noticed that she had only one hair on her head.

"Well," she said, "Today I'm going to wear my hair in a pony tail." So she did and she had a fun, fun day.

The next day she woke up, looked in the mirror and noticed that there wasn't a single hair on her head.

"YEAH!" she exclaimed, "I don't have to fix my hair today!"

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Attitude is everything

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"Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there." Will Rogers

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Friendship is the union of spirits, a marriage of hearts, and the bond thereof virtue.

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The secret to friendship is being a good listener.

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I cannot concentrate all my friendship on any single one of my friends because no one is complete enough in himself.

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True friendship comes when silence between the two people is comfortable.

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Friendship improves happiness and abates misery, by doubling of our joy and dividing of our grief.

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That friendship will not continue to the end which is begun for an end.

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A friendship between me and you I will not compare to a chain; for that rains might rust, or the falling tree might break.

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Friendship is a horizon which expands whenever we approach it.

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Friendship often ends in love but love in friendship Never.

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Friendship is a single soul living in two bodies.

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People come into your life for a Reason, a Season , or a Lifetime. When you know which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.

They may seem like a Godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be.
http://img69.imageshack.us/img69/673/leaf01june2at.gifhttp://img69.imageshack.us/img69/673/leaf01june2at.gifhttp://img69.imageshack.us/img69/673/leaf01june2at.gifThen, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered, and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life!

One day I decided to quit... I quit my job, my relationship, my Spirituality... I wanted to quit my life.

I went to the woods to have one last talk with God. God, I said. Can you
give me one good reason not to quit His answer surprised me...

Look around, He said. Do you see the fern and the bamboo Yes, I replied.

When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of
them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the earth.

Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo
seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. In the second year the Fern grew
more vibrant and plentiful. And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed.

But I did not quit on the bamboo. He said. In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. In year four, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. I would not quit. He said.

Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared to
the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant...But just 6 months later
the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. It had spent the five years growing
roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I
would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle. He said
to me.

Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you
have actually been growing roots I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you. Don't compare yourself to others. He said. The bamboo had a different purpose than the fern. Yet they both make the forest beautiful.

Your time will come, God said to me. You will rise high. How high should I rise I asked. How high will the bamboo rise He asked in return.
As high as it can I questioned

Yes. He said, Give me glory by rising as high as you can. I left the forest and bring back this story. I hope these words can help you see that God will never give up on you. He will never give up on you !!!

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The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right time. But also to leave the wrong thing unsaid at the most tempting moment.

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That was a very wise line. I might be going off-topic here, but...
In my country there is a saying.
" A tongue has no bones but can crash bones."
Meaning that sometimes harsh words can do more damage than actions.
Thank you for reminding people that.

A really motivating thread from http://neerajsingh.bizhat.

The basic driving force during negative circumstances in our life is self motivation. One can get motivaed by self. For this one need Knowledge, will power / confidence and a healthy body.

Thanks.....

Well, I just disappeared. Coming back after a very long time :-)

How is life buddy.

Cheers,
Neeraj