Online Dating Tips

Online dating offers wonderful opportunities to meet and fall in love however, it's important to keep a few things in mind:

1. Watch out for someone who seems too good to be true and be on the look out for inconsistencies.

2. Guard your anonymity. Don't rush into giving your personal information right away.

3. Any suitor must earn your trust gradually. Take all the time you need to become comfortable with someone before revealing any personal contact information.

4. Ask for more than one photo, preferably in a variety of settings - casual, formal, indoor and outdoor.

5. If you're not given a solid contact number, if you have to page a person to call you back or if you can only call during certain hours, this is not a good sign.

6. Consider it suspicious if someone you barely know asks you for financial assistance. Avoid getting into financial trouble by following a simple rule: don't lend or borrow money.

7. Always trust your instincts and exercise caution and common sense.

Modern Dating: A "New-Fangled" Idea

Since the beginning of the 20th century, the purpose of romantic relationships and marriage has become that of providing satisfaction and fulfillment for the individual. Before that, marriage and relationships were looked at as something that could bring about privileges and advantages for your “tribe”, whether your tribe was your family, your social or religious community, or your country. Under that world view, the needs and desires of the individual were not considered to be as important as benefits like allying yourself with a wealthy family, gaining an important political advantage, or ensuring the passing down and survival of important cultural and religious traditions.

In order to take into account all of the various factors that would be involved in some kind of an arranged relationship, the parties involved would need to take advantage of the skills of some type of matchmaker. Whether it was a political advisor, who could suggest favorable matches for an eligible son or daughter based on the political trends taking place in the country at that time, or the local wise woman charged with the health and well-being of her community, a matchmaker was charged with evaluating the strengths and weaknesses of each potential partner, in an effort to find the best match for everyone involved.

Interestingly enough, the concept of an outside person or force working as a matchmaker seems to be coming back into play in our culture, but with a modern twist. Although mean and women today still want the freedom to choose their romantic partners for themselves, many are turning to online or in-person dating services, the modern day matchmakers, for help in meeting potential partners to choose from. So the modern day dating experience has now become a blend of the best of the old traditions with the individual’s new freedom to choose.

Bachelors are not favourites of those who exploit marriage business. Dree makers donot like bachelors because they never

buy dresses except in self defence. Jewellers donot like bachelors because they always try to sell them jewels. Hire car firms

donot like bachelors because they always take taxis. Florists donot like bachelors because they do not like anyody.

Has bachelor has no friends ?. Only one, mother.
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Love is not the basis for marriage; marriage is the basis for love.

Being loved is the second best thing in the world; loving someone is the best.

Treat your partner with respect and deal with honesty.

After marriage, she will live like an actress living in night club. The bill will be as steep. There is nobody she doesn't know and nowhere ahe doesn't go. Regarding cooking, she asks ' do you take the shell off before you fry an egg ?'.

Is incapable of striking a match without setting the house on fire. In marriage the promise from the girl's side is too vague to be actionable.

Marriage consists of a master, mistress and two slaves, making two in all.

When you are going to marry ?
When pigs have wings!.

A supreme misfortune, a human octopus - Think carefully before you venture.

Woman like valuable possessions (Gold, diamonds, posh car etc), a desireable item is man. More than 50 % of the British woman millionares are divorced ( Divorce has made a right way to earn easy money within no time).

--- Quoted from 'How to avoid matrimony', the best seller of the 1970s.

Man and woman are of different sex, so their character, behaviour and thinking are different.

Those who truly love will not expect love in return.

Woman will use words that she doesn't really mean, so he shouldn't take them literally or define them.

Men feel emotions as strongly as women, but avoid showing it.

While talking to a woman just sit expression less and don't interrupt the conversation with solutions.

He may have been a perfect man all day but she refuses sex because she is still unhappy that he insulted her mother two weeks ago!.

the above is right belive him he knows

All about love, marriage & sex

Make your husband feel great : Tips for a happy married life.

The only time a woman really succeeds in changing a man is when he is a baby. Therefore never try to change your husband !.

To be happy, keep your husband happy.

Only you can make yourself happiest.

The more time you are together, the more likely you are to get on each other's nerves.

Want to be a good wife ?. Have confidence in your husband.

Be a good wife by encouraging him to work harder in his younger years. Encourage. Don't nag.

Be his partner in his dreams.

Simple truth about marriage : If you want to make your husband happier, make yourself happy first.

Happiness

If you want happiness for an hour....take a nap
If you want happiness for a day....go on a picnic
If you want happiness for a month....get married
If you want happiness for a year....inherit wealth
If you want happiness for a lifetime....learn to love what you do for your living !.

Be happy with yourself, your husband will be happier with his work, and happier with you.

Happiness is never perfect unless it is shared.

Only for the married

You will decide what husband you want. Do you want to be a taller wife with a shorty husband or a shorty wife with a taller husband or equal - that you decide, and think about your reactions every action of his.

When your husband comes home from the office, for the sake of your own happiness don't throw tantrums.

Grow up to be a big girl, learn to solve your own problems instead of telling him silly silly problems. Be a good wife.

Wives, stay away from temptations. Lord Ram spoiled his life when he try to chase the lovely deer for Sita after hearing her words. When the greed starts in our lives, even Lakshmana rekhas won't work.

Help your husband to relax. You have to teach him to slow down, how to enjoy what you already have.

Be a good wife - tips

Both you have a common goal - to be happy in life together.

Don't shout at your husband. He wants peace of mind when he comes home and, therefore, he tries very hard not to retaliate, and to accepts the insults and humiliations.

Learn to enjoy simple pleasures of life.

Don't compare your husband with other husbands.

Have a problematic husband - It is you and him - both have created a problem and only both of you can solve it.

The mightiest tree falls with a humble axe on the hundredth stroke. It does not mean the earlier ninety nine strokes did not contribute to the success.

Thoughts for a happy life

God Grant me the serenity
To accept the things I cannot change
The courage to change the things I can
And the wisdom to know the difference.

Watch your thoughts, they become your words
Watch your words, they become your actions
Watch your actions, they become your habits
Watch your habits, they become your character.

Know Male & Female behaviour

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

Women's problems start with men - Menopause, Menstrual pain, Mental illness, 'Gaynaecologist', 'Histerectomy' etc.

A woman needs to know but one man well to understand all men; Whereas a man may know all women and not understand one of them.

Men will never understand women and women will never understand men. And that's the one thing that men and women will never understand.

When a woman gives a personal development book to another woman, the woman who receives it is honoured and thankful for a gift that may help her to improve. A man, however, may feel insulted and feel the woman is saying he's not good enough the way he is.

About Men

Men loves to give advises and solutions.

If one man asks another man for advise, the man who is asked sees the request as a compliment.

Calling a plumber without first consulting the man of the house can be taken as a major insult.

Men like to forget about their own problems by looking at someone else.

Studies show that married men live longer than unmarried men, some men say it just feels longer!.

In Sweden by law, men have to sit while peeing in a public toilet.

Male brain has better spatial ability and problem solving capacity.

About nagging wives

Nag = to annoy, worry, harass, hassle, henpeck, provoke, torment, bend someone's ear etc.

Let women learn how her tongue to rule.

Nag is a female noun without any male equivalents in dictionary.

Until the 19th century, English, American and European laws allowed for a husband to complain to the magistrate about his wife's nagging or scolding. If his case was found proved, his wife would be sentenced to the 'Ducking stool' - the offending women will be strapped into a seat and be dunked into the nearest river or lake for a predetermined length of time. (Ref. - British court record of 1592).

The last women to suffer the Ducking stool after being convicted of being 'a common scold' was Jenny Pipes from Leominster, England in 1809.

If the 'Ducking stool' wasn't considered punishment enough, there was even worse in store. Some women ended up being paraded around the town, as a warning to other women, with an iron mask, 'the brunks', clamped into their heads with a metal bar going into their heads with a metal bar going into their mouths to hold the tongue down.

Why women nag at home ?

Nagging can be a cry for help. So .....

Are you listening to the other person?
Do you understand the other person's frustration?
Do you refuse to share the household activities because you are the bread winner in the home?

The woman who resorts regularly to nagging, however, is the one who feels powerless, frustrated and stuck.

Career woman who are happy and feel fulfilled in their work rarely nag at home.
Giving the nagger recognition for performing small, routine tasks eliminate most nagging.

About men & women

The more a woman pushes, the more the man will resist
The more he resists, the more resentful she becomes.

For hundred thousand years, woman dressed to attract while men have dressed to frighten away their enemies. Men would paint their faces and bodies, put bones through their noses, wear a dead buffalo on their head and have a rock connected to the end of their penis!.

what can you tell about a well dressed man?
His wife is good at picking out his clothes.

Men's bad habits

Men's habits women won't tolerate are farting, nose picking, burping, body odour, wearing ancient underwear (even at first night!) and crotch scratching.

Flatulence - An embarrassing by product of digest with foul smell. 96.3% of men admit to farting, while only 2.1% of women will ever acknowledge they fart.

Men fart 12 times a day and loose 1.5 to 2.5 litres of gas, while women fart 7 times a day and emits 1 to 1.5 litres of gas.

Fart gas is 50 to 60 % Nitrogen 30 to 40 % of Carbon dioxide, 5 to 10 % Methane etc. Warning : Farting can cause explosion in underground mines due to Methane.

Talking while eating cause air to be trapped in the system and cause excessive farting. Chew food very slowly, avoid talking and don't watch TV while eating.

Read for a happy married life

Men relieve stress by disengaging the brain and thinking about something else.

Men and boys are addicted to anything that has buttons, moving parts, make sounds, has flashing lights and runs on batteries. Gift him a TV with remote, mobile phone, remote controlled toys, robotic dogs, video games, GPS navigational system, a car or a bike, computer preferably a laptop etc.

Never give a man or boy flowers or a nice card; they won't mean nothing to him.

Never talk to a man while he's having a wet shave, unless you mean to hurt him.

A man is twice as likely as a woman to be involved in a car accident while talking on a mobile phone.

For the married

Women discuss every little thing in detail.

Women use silence to punish men, but men love silence.

If a woman wants to punish a man, the easiest way is to talk to him nonstop and keep changing the subject.

Women live an average of 7 years longer than men mainly because of a better ability to cope with stress.

For a man, woman's exaggeration can be frustrating because his brain relies on facts and data for understanding and he decodes words literally.

A woman thinks when a man doesn't talk much it means he mustn't love her because, for her, words are used to bond.

A man thinks a woman talks too much and is trying to interrogate him.

Men's turn ons in priority order : Athletic body shape, sensual mouth, full breasts, long legs, rounded hips / small waist, hemispherical buttocks, attractive eyes, long hair, small nose, flat belly, arched back, arched vulva and long neck.

Men prefer looks to brains.

The bulk of breast is fat tissue that gives it the rounded shape and is not involved in milk production. Woman without children have pink nipples, mother have darker brownish nipples and monkey females don't have any breasts at all.

Men find rounded, peach shaped buttocks most attractive. Women's buttocks store large amounts of fat for use in breast feeding and is an emergency food storage in lean times, similar to camel's hump.

Protruding rears is an ancient signal of female sexuality that was so honoured in Greece that a temple was built to Aphrodite Kallipygos, the goddess with the beautiful buttocks.

Women believe that they are ugly without make up and use it as a mask to hide behind rather than a simple aid to making their faces even more enticing and mysterious.

Men are more attracted to a women who wears natural looking make up than one who looks as if she applied it with a bricklayer's trowel.

Men are visual beings (99 % of porn sites are meant for men) and like to look at attractive women.

Women's top turn ons are : Athletic body shape, broad shoulders, chest and muscular arms, small tight bum, full hair, sensual mouth, kind eyes, strong nose and chin, narrow hips and muscular legs, flat belly, large penis and a three day beard.

Male nipples are a low ranking sexual attraction but play a part in sex play. There are thousands of recorded incidents of man being able to produce breast milk for feeding in circumstances of extreme deprivation, such as the starvation that occurred in the WW II period.

Men can have breast cancer and they die quickly than women.

Who lies ?.
Every one lies. Most lying occurs at first meetings where everyone wants to present themselves in the best light.

Only enemies speaks the truth. Friends and lovers lie endlessly, caught in the wed of duty - Stephan King.

We lie for two reasons - to make a gain or avoid a pain.

Women need to understand that their appearance is important to a man and that it can seriously affect their relationship.

Men need to learn that a woman measures the depth of their relationship by how he behaves towards her.

How To Be A Good Husband

1. Be Her Sounding Board

When your wife tells you her problems, she isn't necessarily looking for a problem solver. She wants someone to listen to her and empathize with what's going on in her life.
A husband who hears about his wife's problems instinctively wants to come to the rescue. But most of the time, this isn't what your wife is looking for. You need to fill the role more of a psychologist than that of a troubleshooter. Listen to her problems; show concern for those problems; show that you have empathy; but don't always reply with "here's what you need to do."
When your wife comes to you with her problems, she isn't looking for you to be her lawyer. And she certainly doesn't need you to be her football coach, giving her fiery motivational speeches about how to beat her problem. She wants a counsellor, to listen to her problems and help her deal with their emotional impact.
2. Show Respect

A good exercise for every husband is to try to show your wife respect. This dovetails with my previous point, but goes beyond that specific situation.
A major part of showing respect is to avoid the trap of being hyper-critical. Don't criticize the way your wife dresses, cooks meals, parks the car or walks the dog. You might think you are instructing your wife, but you are actually showing disrespect for the decisions you make.
Actions are just as important as words. Don't make decisions that normally a married couple makes together. This shows you have no respect for her opinion.
Also, try to avoid certain intonations with your wife, the kind that can be described as "talking down" to her. A woman can pick up on these as well or better than a man can. These tell her you have contempt for whatever is she's doing, that you are treating her like a child or even your pet. Showing a lack of respect is one of the surest ways to poison a marriage.
3. Avoid Judgment

When you live with someone every day, it's hard not to build up resentments and overanalyze your partner's every move. But no one is going to stand up to that level of scrutiny. Try not to sweat the little stuff, because it has a way of becoming big rather quickly. If you judge every action or opinion your wife has, that's going to come through in your words and actions.
Your wife is different from you. Of course she isn't going to perceive things the way you do. She's had different life experiences than you, not the least of which is the general experience of living life as a woman. She won't always like what you like. She won't behave like a man does. Apart from sexual needs and having children, that's one of the reasons men get into a relationship. We feel the need for a woman's companionship.
4. Don't Bring Your Own Issues Into the Marriage

As I mentioned earlier, being in a marriage is being part of a team. This means you sometimes have to put your wants or needs second to those of the team.
All of us have emotional baggage. When we marry, we bring that emotional baggage into the marriage. But when your wife comes to you for support, that isn't the time to open up that emotional baggage. There are times when you can unload this stuff on your wife, but not when she needs your support.
It's common for a man to internalize all her problems and make them our own. But if you do this, you are losing sight of why she confided in you in the first place. Don't be selfish when you are supposed to be supportive. I mean, all of us tend to process information through our own filter. But that doesn't mean our opinions are always useful to the problem.
5. Know When to Make it About You

Of course, it can't always be about her or the marriage. There are times when your needs should be met. That's the definition of a give-and-take partnership, which is what a marriage should be about.
Tell her how you feel, but don't put her in a defensive position. This means you describe to her how something she does affects you without making your feelings accusatory. When you talk about issues in your marriage, tell her about how it affects you instead of what it is about her that bothers you. Good communication is one of the keys of a healthy marriage; good communication requires you to tell her how you are affected.
If your wife does something that hurts you, tell her exactly that you are hurt. Don't focus on her actions, but on the consequences of those actions. If you simply accuse her of undermining you or being insensitive, it automatically puts her on the defensive. When she's defensive about her actions, good communication becomes all but impossible.
6. Be Affectionate

I know guys don't like being cuddly. Being affectionate after sex takes time and it doesn't make us feel manly, but women need affection sometimes. If you only give them that stuff to get to bed, your wife is going to notice and think it's insincere.
Of course, this goes beyond the bedroom. If you show your wife spontaneous affection occasionally, it reassures her of the love bond.
7. Be Willing to Get Outside Help

There's the common joke about men refusing to ask for directions. Men throughout history have needed to be self-sufficient. That's one of the characteristics which make men successful. When we were out in the wilderness hunting for food, we couldn't stop at the convenience store to ask where the herd was.
That being said, self-reliance can only take us so far. A smart man has to realise when he can't do it all himself. One of those cases is the man whose marriage is in trouble. It's very standard for a man to refuse to go to a marriage counselor.
A man would prefer to buy a map than ask for directions. In the same way, he would rather read how-to guides on how to save his marriage than ask for professional help. In a lot of cases, getting good advice is enough. Modifying our attitudes and the subsequent behaviors those attitudes cause can have profound effects on a failing marriage. But sometimes the problems run deeper. That's when a man has to give into his wife's request that they speak to a counselor

We all are here for a partner. After all what are these sites for? Flirting is just a way to approach that you have an attraction for the person. You can try it in many way. Directly or Indirectly. You can send an anonymous crush to your heart throb using AAfter Search box. They only disclose your identity if your crush feels the same way as you do. Here is what you need to write in the search box:
crush:your email: email of crush 1 : email of crush 2 : email of crush 3
then click web search button. Let the magic of love makes all of you happy.

HELP! What should I write in my profile?
So you've decided to try online personals. Well you've come to the right place. Here are tips for writing attention getting profiles.

Most online dating services ask standard questions about yourself. It's great to get the particulars of yourself out of the way, but the key to a good personal ad is what you write in the description & headline fields. Think of your personal ad as an advertisement for yourself. The goal is to draw people in with your headline and keep the reader's attention by writing an interesting description of yourself.

Your Headline

The headline for your profile needs to be catchy enough to get someone's attention in just a few words. You can easily do this by using keywords that best sum up your personality. If you're funny it should show in your headline. There's no need to include details about yourself such as your age since that information is listed along with your headline. It's also important not to say anything that makes you sound desperate like in these examples:

Lonely Guy/Girl
Sick of being single
Desperate for love
Tired of Looking

Remember, you're essentially trying to sell yourself and your positive qualities. So avoid negative statements in your headline and have fun with it! It's also a good idea to include phrases like "click here" or ask a question like "Are you a movie fanatic?" When you ask someone to do something or to answer a question you're more likely to get results.

Your Description

Now let's talk about the Description for your ad. This is your chance to say in your own words what you're about. It's not enough to answer a bunch of generic questions. So GO FOR IT. Let your personality show and don't hold back. Keep in mind there are hundreds of profiles just like yours that say the same things. So say something to stand out from the crowd and make the reader curious to find out more about you. Talk about things that are interesting to you and stay away from clichйs. And please, please avoid making up things about yourself. You're only wasting your time and someone else's by being dishonest. I suggest writing enough to convey what you're about but not revealing everything about yourself initially. A good rule of thumb is to keep your description within 200-300 words.

Good luck!!

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Originally Posted by elws

the above is right belive him he knows

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yes i believe him. ^^

that a good tips

awesome tips for single and married lives.

Well your post is very nice and knowledgeable for everyone thanks for sharing with us....

I don't know why it's called online dating because dating happens offline...however, when getting to know people online for potential offline dates, here are some tips:


1. Represent yourself truthfully...don't act like someone you are not, don't put bogus info or pics in your profile


2. Don't give out any personal information (name, phone number, address, place of work) until you've gotten to know someone a bit...in fact, it's best not to divulge that info until after you've met and gotten an impression of them...


3. When you make arrangements to meet, do so in a public place...arrive and leave separately...don't have them pick you up or vice versa, don't let them follow you home...


4. If something seems off or too good to be true, let that be a red flag...there are plenty of honest and kewl people online, but there are also plenty who are not...use good judgement and don't believe everything you see or hear

A long time I posted about getting out of a 10 year relationship and starting online dating. Well I tried all the apps and learned a lot But I am happy to say that I met an amazing partner who me and my family adores. We will be moving in with each other in June