How to Befriend a Girl You Like

[minisoji]

Build self-confidence. Make a list of your strong qualities. After you're finished, read the list and realize that there are plenty of reasons why the girl would like to talk to you. After all, no girl will like someone who doesn't like themselves.

Introduce yourself. There are so many ways to introduce yourself. Sometimes, it's the deciding factor in a friendship. You need to find a way to meet her. You can have a friend introduce you or go to a party she goes to, but if all else fails, wait until she's alone and introduce yourself.


Discover her interests. Find out what she likes to do and ask her questions about it. This leads to great conversations, and she will want to talk to you more often if she knows that you're not always going to talk about football and of the sort. After a while, she will start to show interest in things that you like, and you and she will start to become friends.


Relax and enjoy yourself. Girls are attracted to guys who are comfortable with themselves. If you find yourself getting nervous, relax and smile. Even if you don't have anything suave to say, a good attitude can win points.


Be yourself. Girls don't like fake boys. If you're going to approach her, be honest. Show your real qualities, not a facade that you've worked on in an attempt to impress her. Also to give her as much space as possible.


Spend time together. This is a deciding stage in your relationship. Are you just a friend she sees every now and then, or are you someone she spends a lot of time with? This is the time during which you have to build your bond with her. If you don't, you will be "just another person" to her. You have to be patient, because the length of time spent in this stage varies from person to person.


Make your move. By now, you should be good friends - really good friends. If you're really good at this, she will probably already like you. However, regardless of whether she has told you that she does or not, you should tell her that you like her. Just tell her - don't be all passionate about it. Tell her in a discrete way, so that it won't ruin your friendship, but make sure you get the message across.


Take the next step. This is where it's different for every person. By now, you have either realized that you hate them, or you're even more in love. They either like you back or they don't. Whichever way it goes, you have to run with it.


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[raffaelenardi]

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