I appreciate the time and effort for your reply, Neeraj/ Ebisu-san.
And I am reluctantly confessing that I have absolutely no idea about the social structure of India and it's ethics, therefore I am not the appropriate person to agree or disagree with your suggestions.
Being raised in Greece has it's advantages - and disadvantages as well. We have what people call "Mediaterranean taperament" meaning that we are very passionate in all aspects of our lives. We usually defy social taboos and claim our heart's desire at every cost.
Like I said, I don't know anything about India's moral code, so I cannot agree/ disagree with your opinions, but I can definitely say that you should really give it a try before giving up. And a hard try as well.
Albeit I can't debate with your ideas anymore due to my ignorance - and I apologize deeply - , I am at least a bit happy for making you look at the matter from a different prospective.
I hope I have helped in any way.
Just my thoughts.