What do u lke - Arranged marriage or Love marriage???

[Guttu]

These days we see many couples gettin divorced
throughout the world
This used to not happen in India but it has now
and most of the marriages which are unsuccessful are
love marriages. Yes thats the truth

So what is ur opinion about this
Shud the marriages be arranged or loved??
what do u think is the reason behind the breakup

[indianbaba]

Marriages should always be arranged.
There is no relation between love,a rranged marriages to divorcing
That is their personal opinion problems.

[tuluvaguy]

As far i think arranged marriage is great.So no tension like we have to take girl friend out,No tension in achieving the goal.Coz breakup is the worst part in love,.......................................So loved arrange marriage is good

Whether marriage is for love (or so they think . . .) or by arrangement, it is a committment. I suspect there are fewer divorces in India because it's understood that marriage is for life. Those who marry for love should make the same committment.

[saidomarah]

I think that love which comes after marriage is stronger and that's my own experiance in life I loved a girl when I was a student in the university but we failed to marry for several reasons and after some years I married another one without previouse relation exept I know her father and family will.
I'm very happy in my life with my three children and my queen (my wife) so I think that arranged marriage is better than love marriage.

[ppitokodai]

Well, both can be good of course :p. As long you could live happily ever after, that's fine i guess. :)

[Casi Angelita]

Of curse love marrige.
I think that love is the only thing that can keep marrige

[SummerView]

I dunno. Although arranged marriages may be successful, you don't really wanna marry somebody you don't love, do you?

[buslady]

I am glad we do not have arranged marriages here. I would not be happy with a man who I can't stand. I don't care about appearances, it's personality and how they treat me is what counts.

See, in India, if this is what works there that's great. Thats the way tradition is there.
Here in the states is pick & choose. Date someone, learn about them and if you can't stand them, dump them. If you love them, marry them. If they divorce, oh well. Thats the way it goes.
I married a jerk, I learned a lesson. I had a son by him, but now...after divorcing the goon, I am happily married to my current husband who is a real go getter, we run our own company and I have a nice house and everything I need.
I have my son, I never see the ex and neither does my son.